"Being single does not mean that you're loveless, Jersey. I chose to be like this temporarily. And I even prove to myself that I can be happy without the things I needed the most" 
-Jicker
Wala naman masama sa pagiging single. Hindi ko nga maintindihan kung bakit karugtong ng single ang salitang alone. Bakit? I admit, di ko alam ang pakiramdam ng inlove or in a relationship pero hindi ibig sabihin alone ako. Siguro may mga times na loner pero most of the times feeling fine naman acu with friends and family. 

Base sa karanasan ng iba (wag ka, diary ako minsan ng ibang tao eh), iba talaga pag in a relationship ka. Uo na, aaminin ko may spark sa mga mata nila, minsan pa nga ang weird nila. Nakakita ako ng the other side nila na hindi mo aakalain na may gagawin silang effort for their bf/gf na kaya nilang harapin ang kahihiyan at ibaba ang pride nila. Ang korni na nga eh, pero wala yun, masaya sila eh, gusto nila yun. Pero sa mga relasyon, pag di inalagaan, maglalaho yan. MAhirap din maengage sa relationship, anjan si jealous, asahan mu si third party, meron ding insecurity, may hurt... but I think that's the beauty of being in love. Before ka nagengage sa isang relasyon, you already accepted the fact na mararanasan niu si pain at si risk. Wala naman kasing perfect relationship. You can live just fine in your own, pero mas pinipili ng karamihan to be with that someone kasi si someone lang pwedeng bumuo sa kung anu pang kulang ang meron ka. Iba kasi ung feeling. Alam niu na yun, kasi hindi ko nga alam. The feeling of losing pero happy. The feeling of sacrificing pero oks na oks. Ung tipong you can't help yourself but to love this person no matter what, no matter who. the feeling na kahit malayo sa ideal relationship, mas better pa din ung ngayon kasi siya ang dahilan mo. Pero kahit ano pa man yan, it depends to the to parties if it the relationship will prove the word forever o puchu-puchu lang. Wag niung isisisi ang isang break up sa third party, sa destiny, sa parents. Ginusto niu yan.! Peace yow!

Wag kayong magconclude. di ko pa naranasan yan. Dapat ang title nito being single, mukhang ung content di naaayon eh. Hahahaha :))



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    Marielle P. Bataoil. single. 18. November 20. 5'5. immature. quiet.they always see me happy. lazy. experiencing 3yrs--> of suffering; mentally, psychologically, emotionally in short getting crazier. late bloomer. anime maniac. traveler. suspicious. prone to unfortunate things. adaptable. cute stuffs lover. if you read this, give me CHOCOLATES!!(i hate introductions!!)

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